working as both a relationship and self-mastery coach. With over 5 million followers across her social platforms, her content—ranging from workshops to podcasts to viral videos—helps people cut through confusion and reconnect with what they actually want in love and life. Her no-fluff takes in episodes like “Why Nice Isn’t Enough” and “How to Leave the Friend Zone” have resonated with thousands navigating dating, intimacy, and self-worth.
Before her work as a coach, Mercedes spent two decades working in the male-dominated world of motorsports and action sports as a professional model, including cover shoots for DUB Magazine, brand partnerships with Monster Energy, and time as a ring card girl for Bellator MMA. These experiences gave her a front-row seat to human psychology, image, and performance—insight that now informs the way she teaches others to show up more authentically in life and love.
As a certified Existential Kink coach, Mercedes is known for blending shadow work, relational healing, and emotional intelligence into one accessible package. Her coaching journey includes unique spaces—like her unconventional presence on OnlyFans, where she created a candid and transformative container for clients to explore deep emotional wounds, desires, and beliefs around love, power, and vulnerability. Her own healing from sex addiction and toxic relationship cycles gave her firsthand understanding of what it takes to unlearn old patterns and reconnect with one’s true self.
Mercedes was the co-host of Mercedes and the Chap, a podcast dedicated to unpacking modern relationships with humor and depth, and also co-hosted The MAJic Hour, a top-ranked show exploring philosophy, personal growth, and spirituality. Guests included bestselling authors and cultural influencers like Don Miguel Ruiz Jr., Nicole LaPera, Tom Shadyac, Richard Rudd, and Adrian Grenier.
As a sought-after guest and speaker, Mercedes has appeared on dozens of popular podcasts with diverse audiences—such as The Myths That Make Us, Xpand, Align, MMA Junkie Radio, State Shifters, and The Awake with Jake Show. Known for her raw honesty, sense of humor, and deep compassion, she helps people of all backgrounds move beyond surface-level fixes and into real transformation—in life, love, and self.
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